=)
alright.i was so fustrated when i found out my brother
actually went to hide my phone la.i feel like killing him.
i was searching up and down the house for my phone,
trying to recall where i put it after i called chummie.
in the end i gave up,picked up my house phone dialed my number.
and guess wad?stupid brother hide it inside some random plastic bag!
i so so wanna smack him in the ass.
it's just so bored at home and it's always like that.argh!
anyway just wanna share something again,
after reading the her world magazine.
MARRIAGE RULES HAVE ALSO CHANGED...
THEN:choose a partner of the same status.
NOW:background dont matter.communication and chemistry are more important.
THEN:put aside your relationship when you have a child.
NOW:prioritise your marriage by leaving time aside to romance each other.
THEN:sex becomes less important the longer you're married to each other.
NOW:it's no shame for a wife to enjoy -- and initiate sex -- at any age.
THEN:wives do the housework.
NOW:chores are divided,negotitaions are allowed.
THEN:seek professional counselling when the marriage is in hot water.
NOW:preempt problems from the start by learning helpful relationship
skills through couples' workshop.
i somehow like the the fourth one.haha!make sense right?
anyway there's still some others which i think seriously make sense.
and there's also this "some things we take for granted" section.
OlD RULE:call him your boyfriend after you've held hands.
NEW RULE:dont assume anything until it's been discussed.
OLD RULE:he's serious when he asks you out.
NEW RULE:you're not the only woman he's checking out.
OLD RULE:guy should hit on girl first.
NEW RULE:go ahead,make the first move.
OLD RULE:he brings home the bacon
NEW RULE:he loves your financial independence...sort of
hmm.new generation now.haha!thing have changed.
i love this part.seriously love the following part.
"love is a classless emotion that can make any of us act out
in unexpected ways,from the whimsical to the bizzare."
when things turn sour,there's really no degree or certificate that
can guarantee you'll stay level-headed.
we may think that high-fliers who hold big jobs can tale anything
that comes their way.but grappling with a broken relationship
isn't the same as negotiating million-dollar deals.and not
everybody parts with a golden handshake.
"no one can exist solely to fulfil someone else's needs."
so if your narcissistic drive is that powerful and you need that
sort of self-fulfilment all the time,it will be a terrible affront
to you if the other part withdraws,and your rage will then drive you
to seek out that person to make him come back and feed your needs.
and guess wad?this part is real interesting.
recent study found 84 per cent of woman have fantasised about
killing someone - almost always a love rival - it's not so far-fetched
to say that we all have a latent time bomb waiting to go off.
and i the clock gets started,your IQ cando very little to defuse it.
so moral of the story : best thing is daddy doesn't let mummy go crazy.
=) i love HER WORLD.